That’s why building a community from the onset is one of the most important things you can do early on. Here’s how you can start creating your own circle of support, connection and belonging:
1. Say yes (even when it’s awkward)
Whether it’s a social event, campus society fair, group study session, or a spontaneous hangout—try saying yes more often than no. You don’t need to be an extrovert to build connections. Being open to experiences (and a little bit brave) will help you to meet new people who might just become lifelong friends.
2. Join clubs, societies & study groups
Most universities offer a wide range of student societies—academic, cultural, social, sporting and everything in between. Whether you're into anime, chess, activism, or hiking, joining a group around shared interests is a great way to meet like-minded people.
3. Get involved on campus
Volunteering, student leadership, or becoming more active in spaces and places around campus are all ways that you can contribute to the student community, whilst also learning new skills. These roles often connect you with others who care about making your campus a better place for everyone.
4. Be a friendly face
Sometimes, building a community is as simple as making eye contact, offering a smile, or starting a casual chat with a classmate. These small acts help create a more welcoming environment for everyone—including you.
5. Embrace diversity
University brings together people from diverse backgrounds, cultures, and experiences. Be open to learning from others, listening to different perspectives, and forming friendships across such differences. Community is strongest when it includes everyone.
6. Check in with yourself and others
As much as you’re getting use to a new environment, so is everyone else. Reach out if someone seems alone or if you need support yourself. Building a thriving community is also about showing care, empathy and kindness.
7. Create your own traditions
Maybe its watching a game over the weekend, meeting for coffee and a chat, a joint study session with friends, a monthly potluck, or a game night. These get-togethers give a rhythm to university life and can turn strangers into lifelong friends.
Remember that a community doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time, effort, and a bit of vulnerability—but it’s worth it. The connections you form will shape your university experience in the best possible ways. So be patient with yourself and others as you find your place.
You’re not just going to university—you’re becoming part of a community. Make it count.
For more information on student life and events at Mandela University, have a look here: https://studentaffairs.mandela.ac.za/
We look forward to welcoming you to Nelson Mandela University in 2026.
